kissing is one of the most amazing experiences in life, and being a great kisser is the best asset you can take on your love making adventure.
If you are a good kisser, then keeping that special someone attracted to you just gets easier and easier, because sensual kissing is the precursor to having a great sex life
Unfortunately, too many people let there kissing skills slide once they start having sex with someone. Big Mistake!
So get ready, Because I am going to tell you exactly how to kiss a guy with sex appeal and passion in order to turn him on and make him want you even more.
Here are 13 ways to pucker up and become an amazing kisser!
1) Prepare Yourself
Before you start smooching that special someone, you first need to do some behind the scenes prep work to make sure you look at taste your most desirable.
First off this means hygiene. Brush those teeth and freshen that breath, because there is no bigger turn off then someone who has bad breath.
you then want to scrub your lips, ideally with a sugar scrub to remove any dead skin and leave your lips supple and soft.
Its no lie that men are attracted to bigger fuller lips, so this means its time to plump your lips. you can you lip plumping gloss and lip pumps to enhance the shape and size of your lips.
Now that you have beautiful plump lips, its time to add some balm for a natural gloss look. As much as we love wearing coloured lipstick, be careful with which you choose as it will end up leaving marks all over your man, and it will smudge over your mouth, so be careful.
Ok ladies, its well know that a good scent can be a great indication of personal hygiene and immune health. but one other thing a desirable scent can do is stimulate sexual arousal to our potential mates. So if you want a man to have primal subconscious desire for you, we recommend praying yourself with your favourite perfume, and his desire for you rise.
3) Building anticipation
While your talking to that someone make sure you hold intesnse eye contact with them to show them where your attention is. In holding this eye contact you will feel like you are communicating with them on a completely new level to just words.
Once you build more comfort you can start paying more attention to his lips. The most effective way to do this is by glancing down at his lips every once in a while, for a few seconds mid conversation. He may not notice at first, but after a short time hell know exactly whats going on.
Combine this with slowing down your speed of talk, and slightly leaning in closer to your man can almost guarantee that he'll know 'whats up'.
If he feels the same way back, then hell copy what you are doing by leaning in, slowing down his conversation, holding eye contact and glancing at your lips. If he does any of these then you can be almost positive that he wants to kiss you.
4) Start soft and go slow
When he decides its time to move in and kiss you, or visa versa, make sure you start off slowly and sensually. Gently purse your lips, and as softly and gently as you can massage his lips between yours. you should start with the bottom lip and then work your way up to the top. By doing this, you will overwhelm him with your gorgeous feminine energy and he will just want more and more.
5) Mind your tongue
Tongue use is neccesary when having a good pash... but in moderation. Remember, a kiss is not a facial wash. No one wants to be doused in saliva, or have the entire mouth filled by someones tongue. try starting out slow and small with no tongue, and the start cracking up the energy as the kiss gets more passionate.
6) Change your head position
Sometimes when kissing we can get carried away and we continue to focus on the one side of your mans face. Because you cant kiss someone head on, it is important that every once in a while you swap sides and experience both positions.
7) Sensual touch
There is more to kissing then just the lips. When kissing another person ours heart rate elevates, our breath deepens and skin becomes sensitive. So there is no better way to enhance your partners experience then to touch them in the right way. The kiss will feel much deeper if you touch gently hold them close, stroke there arms and softly touch there neck or back.
8) Be Spontaneous
Kissing is an adventurous experience and a great back and forth exchange between one another, so feel free to loosen us and experiment with different styles of kissing to keep things interesting. A great starter is to gently - key word, gently, tug on his lower lip with your teeth during a kiss but make sure you do not over do it, because you do not want to hurt the other person.
9) Kissing other erogenous areas
Kissing the lips is great, but to really spice things up you should travel your kiss to other areas. There are many erogenous areas in a mans body that are sensitive and full of nerve endings and give great pleasure then kissed.
You can start with cheeks (pretty normal), but then you can move to new areas like the ear lobes and the best way is to just gently kiss and nibble on his ear and it will deliver great sensation.
An amazing zone which is guaranteed to make your mans body tingle is his neck. If you just cuddle up to his neck and start kissing, sucking, massaging and nibbling him there, but warning, guys hate hickeys so be sure to not go too hard with the neck kissing.
10) Always keep your eyes closed
Make sure you always have your eyes closed when kissing. You want to be and feel in the moment and the best way to experience the kiss more is to shut those eyes. Plus it just makes the moment super awkward and kills the mood if you kiss with your eyes open.
11) Follow each others lead
Good kissers will mirror each other's movements, so that they're both on the same page. Take note of what your partner's doing and imitate it. Or, take the lead if you want to try something different. Feel out each other's impulses and kissing styles, and go from there.
12) Let him kiss you
Don't worry girl, i know there is a lot of things to remember from all these tips, but women often fall into the trap of thinking that they need to do all the work. You don't. You should do 50% of the work or even less. Unless, of course, you enjoy being the dominant one, let your man take over and be the one who leads the kiss.
13) Practise makes perfect
There is a lot of tips to remember here girls, so dont expect to be a master after just 1 time. To master these kissing techniques, you need to devote some time and expect that sometimes it will be a bit awkward when you try something new. That's natural and normal, so don't worry. Just see it as something you are practising and eventually, it will become second nature to you.